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parent normatif et parent nourricier

Posted on June 1, 2014 at 1:15 PM
Je reviens de quelques jours de vacances sur un bateau, bateau sur lequel nous étions 10 adultes en "colonie" de vacances! Cette joyeuse bande était "encadrée" par deux membres d'équipage. Les regarder fut un pur bonheur tant ils étaient l'archétype de ce que l'analyse transactionnelle appelle les manifestations des états du moi.

je m'explique: l'analyse transactionnelle identifie trois états du moi:
- l'état enfant
- l'état adulte
- l'état parent

L'état enfant et l'état parent se subdivisent en plusieurs sous états. Ces sous-états ont une fonction essentielle et complémentaire. Nous sommes tous capables de naviguer dans les trois états. Pour autant, nous avons un état qui nous correspond plus, un état-confort. 

C'était particulièrement vrai pour notre capitaine-skipper et notre cuisinier-steward.

Je vous le donne en mille, notre capitaine jouait préférentiellement sur le registre du parent normatif. Ce dernier a des fonctions de protection, de transmission des valeurs, de respect des règles. Est-ce la responsabilité et le poste qui veulent cela ou est-ce que l'on va vers des positions à responsabilité parce que l'on est naturellement parent normatif? telle est la question. 

Quand à notre cuisinier, il s'est littéralement positionné en parent nourricier, au sens propre comme au sens figuré. Il nous cuisinait du beau et du bon et avait cette fonction de permission et d'encouragement. Mais bien sûr que vous pouvez boire un mojito de plus!!! Allez y danser sur le bateau!!!


Bref, cette équipage qui a été si efficace et complémentaire, si bienveillant à notre égard, s'est bien trouvé, avec ou sans l'analyse transactionnelle.

Une chose est sure, même en vacances, l’œil du coach reste en éveil!

Happy learning!

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